It's been a long week! This was my first full week working at Oak Hills Preschool, and Lydia's first full week of experiencing times without me. Every time I leave Lydia with someone else, I always think, "How do parent's do this full time?" I was so blessed to be able to stay home and work with Lydia for the first 15 months of her life. I was the one teaching her how to eat solid food, giving her a sleep schedule, helping her learn to play with friends - not someone else. How do parents leave their tiny baby in someone else's care for up to 12 hours a day?! I know that some parents have to work and must leave their child in daycare...but for the one's who don't have to - I just don't understand it!
I absolutely love spending time with Lydia. She is so funny and cute all the time! Even when she's fussy, I would rather be with her than anywhere else. On Monday, I left her with my sister-in-law, Rekeisha, and she was able to play with her cousin, Abram. Lydia had a great time, but cried when I left her. It was hard leaving her when she started crying, knowing I wouldn't see her until about 5 hours later. Wednesday was even harder. I dropped her off with Rekeisha at 7:30am and didn't see Lydia again until 5:00pm! It was hard coming home and not picking Lydia up. On Friday, she cried and cried when I left her with Leah. And, even though I knew she would be fine, that was the hardest day for me to walk away while she was crying. Hopefully both of us will get used to this leaving thing.
I am so blessed to be able to leave Lydia in the care of family members instead of at a daycare with people I don't know. Lydia has spent time with my family and I know they will take really good care of her and that she will get one-on-one time. While I'm working, I miss spending time with Lydia, but know that she is having fun.
Working at the Preschool is such a blessing for me, as well. I am so happy to have a job that is not full-time or every day so that I can spend a lot of time with Lydia, but still work outside of the home. I didn't realize how tiring working at the Preschool could be! And it's only for about 4 and a half hours! I am on my feet the whole time and am constantly moving around. By the time I get home, I am exhausted! But, I have my chore list and try to stick to it the best I can.
It's hard coming home and working on my chores - when all I want to do is chill with Lydia. I have written out chores by day so that I can accomplish everything gradually throughout the week. Of course, cleaning is a constant job - Lydia messes up every room she enters! Her toys are all over the place, and she finds things that aren't toys (like q-tips) to dump everywhere. The kitchen is another thing I have to constantly keep clean. There's always Lydia cups and dishes to be washed, messes on the floor and counters. I need to stay motivated so the house doesn't get so messy I can't stand it. I am constantly picking up toys, putting away laundry, doing dishes. Plus watching a toddler, working at a Preschool, and teaching piano. I am definitely keeping myself busy!
This weekend has, thankfully, been a very relaxing one. Friday night we went out to Cici's Pizza (Brian and I had good coupons) with Leah, Jessie and Adah. Lydia didn't want to eat much, she was much more interested in playing in the arcade. Then the Carabajals came over after Lydia was in bed to play Guesstimation and Spades. Saturday Brian, Lydia and I lazed around in our bed for awhile and spent the morning watching TV. I did walk 2 miles (in 33 minutes) on the treadmill, and then Lydia and I went to Michael's for more floss for cross-stitching, and then Babies-R-Us for a plastic mat to go under her picnic table (for spills). Then, after dinner, the Carabajals came over again to watch YOUR HIGHNESS (a funny, but inappropriate movie). This morning we lazed in bed again, then got ready for church. Lydia took a nap when we got home, played some and helped wash the car, and is now taking another nap. We have an Area Community Meeting tonight, as well.
I love lazy weekends! Especially after a long, exhausting week!
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| Lydia and Adah at the Cici's Arcade. |
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| Lydia applying for a job at Wal-Mart. |
Let me tell you about my piano lessons! I have 8 wonderful students! On Tuesday, I have lessons from 3:30-4:30 (two brothers, 6 and 9), and then a 11-year old girl at 5:30. Then, on Wednesday, I have lessons from 3:00-5:30! I have siblings, a boy and girl (13 and 6), a 8-year old girl, 7-year old girl, and then a middle-aged woman. These lessons are so much fun! I love it! It's amazing to see everyone's different skill levels and abilities. I absolutely love teaching! I wasn't nervous at all - even when the parents stayed to watch. I just got in the "zone" and started teaching something I love! Hopefully, one day, this is all I will do!









